Keep Him Happy: It Is All About Respect

Keep Him Happy: It Is All About Respect

Learning how to keep your man happy and home begins with respect;

both respect for him and for yourself. Respect is an important part of any relationship; whether you are with your significant other or friends. Without respect you have nothing between two people. Let's start with respecting yourself.

Before you can be in a relationship with someone else, you are in a relationship with yourself. You are the one person you can't get away from every moment of every day. If you don't respect yourself, you will find it difficult to hold respect for others for a long period of time.

Men thrive on respect. Women thrive on love.

Men are more willing to love the women who respect them and women are more willing to respect the men who love them. It's a bit of a vicious cycle and one that you should break. You might not love him, but you should respect him. And if you do respect him, then it's time to show him.

There are several different ways to respect your guy that he'll appreciate and will make his heart swell with pride and love. One of the most powerful is to praise him in front of your friends and family. You might not think he was listening when you told your friends that he's such a big help at home, but he heard it! And the greatest thing about these compliments is that they motivate him to work harder to please you.

Ask his opinion!

Guys naturally want to be the leader.

It doesn't matter who you think is making the decisions, the guy wants to be making them. He is hardwired to be the leader and the hunter. Your guy will feel respected when he knows you want his opinion and you're listening to all he says. The flip side of this is that if the answer isn't what you're looking for or agree with, you shouldn't get angry or go against his opinion. Asking for his opinion does NOT mean you'll take it, but not taking it is a problem also.

Remember that you don't own him.

Don't demand that he is there 24 hours a day and you aren't in charge of his life. When you allow him his space and making his own decisions, then you are showing him respect. Respect is what makes you attractive to him.

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There are also things that you shouldn't do, the things that do not show respect and actually show disrespect. The first is to speak badly about him and to him that is emasculating. Making him feel badly about his actions or thoughts let's him know that you don't respect him. This reduces his attraction to you.

You should never play with a man's sexuality and drives.

Do not use your body or sex to manipulate the relationship or your situation. You have incredible power over him using your looks because he is incredibly visual. When you use yourself as an object he feels used and loses his respect for you. He may not need to respect you to love you, but if he doesn't respect who you are, it's more likely that he'll be looking for someone else who he can respect.

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